Diary
of a Traveling Sadhaka, Vol. 9, No. 3
By Krishna-kripa das
(February 2013, part one)
By Krishna-kripa das
(February 2013, part one)
Gainesville and Ocala Rainbow Gathering
(Sent from Gainesville, Florida, on March 24, 2013)
(Sent from Gainesville, Florida, on March 24, 2013)
Where
I Went and What I Did
During
the first half of February, I continued living at Krishna House, and
chanted on the campus each weekday for two and a half hours. We also
chanted Wednesdays at the Farmers Market for an hour and a half or
two hours. I describe in more detail a couple special events we did
in early February, chanting Hare Krishna at Gainesville’s Mardi
Gras event and the Ocala Rainbow Gathering, where we also distributed
Krishna food.
Now
that my personal reading program of Srila Prabhupada’s books is
becoming more well established, I am often able to read fifteen
minutes each of Bhagavad-gita
As It Is, Srimad-Bhagavatam, Sri Caitanya-caritamrita, and
The
Nectar of Devotion. Thus
I have some notes on especially striking sections from these books. I
also include excerpts from the writings of Satsvarupa Dasa Goswami,
whose blog I proofread. Prabhupada disciple, Amala Bhakta Prabhu, who
has made recordings of all of Srila Prabhupada’s main books, gave
classes in Alachua and Gainesville with lots of realizations, and I
share notes on those. I also share notes on the lectures of the
senior devotees from Alachua who give lectures at Krishna House. I
have notes from a group past live regression seminar led by Prema
Manjari dd, who has expertise in that area.
First
Friday Harinama
in Gainesville
Marlan (holding the sign) and Alexandra (on the far right) went out on harinama
for
the first time and both liked it. Marlan said that when he was with
the devotees at the temple, he sometimes felt out of place because
the other devotees have been around longer and knew what was going
on, but on the harinama
he
felt more comfortable chanting with the devotees than associating
with the Friday night partiers on the street.
Many
devotees considered that harinama
to
be the high point of their week. [For me, however, because I love
First Friday in Tallahassee so much, it was clearly second rate. I
thought our trip to Jacksonville where we assisted the devotees there
in the Thursday Krishna club meeting and Friday breakfast program of
the students was more pleasing.]
Thanks
to Tulasirani devi dasi for the pictures of harinama.
For
more pictures, see her Facebook album, Friday
Night Harinam.
The
Ocala Regional Rainbow Festival
As
usual we brought Krishna prasadam
(spiritual
food) and
kirtana
(chanting
the holy name) to the Ocala Regional Rainbow Festival in the Ocala
National Forest.
We chanted much of the two hours each way, to and from the
National Forest, as well as the forty-five minutes each way it took
us to walk to and from the site. Then we chanted for six hours while
we were there. The devotees were in bliss from all the kirtana.
Caitanya
dd talked and distributed books to many people, some who had bought
books from her last year and two years ago, and who were eager for
more. Hladini dd talked to someone she met at the National Rainbow
Gathering in Tallahassee that she had attended with the New Vrindavan
devotees.
I
talked to a girl (on the right of the above picture) who said she ate
Krishna Lunch when at the University of Florida but now she lived in
Orlando. I explained to her about our Sunday program and its free
feast in Orlando, and asked if she would like the contact
information, and she did, so I copied it off the paper I had brought
for that purpose.
Many
people would dance with our kirtana
party
as they passed.
I
too danced to the chanting.
Some played their African djembe drums. |
Others played stringed instruments. |
Some
of the Rainbow people admired the tilaka worn by the devotees,
and
when Tulasirani dd told them it designed the body as a sacred temple, they
wanted her to put tilaka
on
them. They appear to take it so seriously as she told them, “Now
you are marking your body as a temple Lord, you can no longer use it
for selfish desires, but only to benefit your soul and others.”
Even nonhumans appreciated the Krishna food.
Half
of our party chanted through the woods to the kitchen where Kyra, a
devotee from Alachua, who organized the outreach at the National
Rainbow Gathering, cooked Krishna prasadam
every
other day in the vegan kitchen of a friend. She was happy to see us,
and we were happy to see her and her Jagannatha Deities and pictures
of Radha Krishna. The other half of our party continued chanting at
the trading circle where we continued distributing food.”
Some
Rainbow person brought a parrot which fascinated Hladini.
As
dusk approached, we moved to the main circle and chanted until the
“om” and the evening announcements. Then during the distribution
of food we continued chanting softly, as a couple of us distributed
the rest of the halava
to
the Rainbow people who were all circling a bonfire. Krystina, who we
knew from Krishna Lunch, came by with a friend, to do a music video
of the main circle, and included our chanting in it. She was
frustrated later when her guitar disappeared in the dark without a
trace.
One
new devotee who was doing traveling book distribution and who came
with us to the gathering, said that he had our spaghetti there last
year, and that was the beginning of his Krishna experience.
On
the whole, lots of people got to connect with Krishna through food
and song, and all the devotees felt happy, although exhausted at the
end of the long day.
Thanks to Tulasirani devi dasi for the pictures of the Ocala Rainbow Gathering. For more pictures, see the Krishna House Facebook album, Ocala Rainbow Gathering 2013.
Thanks to Tulasirani devi dasi for the pictures of the Ocala Rainbow Gathering. For more pictures, see the Krishna House Facebook album, Ocala Rainbow Gathering 2013.
Insights
Srila
Prabhupada:
from
Srimad-Bhagavatam
5.19.19,
purport:
“In
the name of secular government, unqualified people are taking the
supreme governmental posts. No one is being trained to act according
to the principles of varnasrama-dharma,
and thus people are becoming increasingly degraded and are heading in
the direction of animal life. The real aim of life is liberation, but
unfortunately the opportunity for liberation is being denied to
people in general, and therefore their human lives are being spoiled.
The Krishna consciousness movement, however, is being propagated all
over the world to reestablish the
varnasrama-dharma
system
and thus save human society from gliding down to hellish life.”
from
Srimad-Bhagavatam
5.19.20,
purport:
“A
living entity becomes established in spiritual, blissful life when he
fully understands that his happiness depends on spiritual
self-realization, which is the basic principle of ananda
(bliss),
and when he is eternally situated in the service of the Lord, who has
no other lord above Him.”
from
The Nectar of Devotion, Chapter
14:
Some
scholars recommend that knowledge and renunciation
are important factors for elevating oneself to devotional service.
But actually that is not a fact. Actually, the cultivation of
knowledge or renunciation, which are favorable for achieving a
footing in Kåñëa consciousness, may be accepted in the beginning,
but ultimately they may also come to be rejected, for devotional
service is dependent on nothing other than the sentiment or desire
for such service. It requires nothing more than sincerity.
. . . Mental speculators neglect
the process of devotional service, and by simply trying to defeat
others in philosophical research they fail to develop the ecstasy of
devotion. . . . One should not give up anything which can be utilized
in the service of the Lord. That is a
secret
of devotional service. Anything that can be utilized in advancing
Krishna consciousness and devotional service should be accepted.
from
The Nectar of Devotion, Chapter
16:
“Spontaneous
love of Krishna as exhibited by the Vrisis
and the denizens of Vrndavana is eternally existing in them. In the
stage of devotional service where regulative principles are followed,
there is no necessity of discussing this love, for it must develop of
itself at a more advanced stage.”
from
a lecture:
In
a court if the defendant pleads that he did not know the law, he will
not be excused. Ignorance is no excuse. Similarly ignorance of God’s
law is no excuse.
If
any rascal guru comes, we can challenge him for speaking differently
than Krishna.
Any
rascal who claims to be God we can defeat. Look up the dictionary
definition of God. God is the supreme being. Are you the supreme
being? Is there no one equal to you or greater than you?
The
guru is worshiped as God because he is representing God, but if he
thinks that because he is being worshiped as God that he has become
God, he is a rascal. God is always God, and guru is guru. Guru does
not become God.
For
one who is serious to understand God, a guru is required.
One
who has accepted a guru will never talk any nonsense.
If
we do not cultivate knowledge we are as good as an animal.
We
are in darkness and require knowledge from a guru to see things are
they are.
We
are struggling to get a better position, but the better position we
do not know. All material positions are temporary. There is no better
position in this material world, and thus those are strive in that
way are being defeated.
There
is knowledge in the Vedic scripture how you can become immortal. The
guru’s responsible position is to instruct the disciple how to
attain that immortality.
from
The
Nectar of Devotion, Chapter
17:
It
is essential, therefore,
that one constantly associate with pure devotees who are engaged
morning and evening in chanting the Hare Krishna mantra.
In
this way one will get the chance to purify his heart and develop this
ecstatic pure love for Krishna.
from
Srimad-Bhagavatam
4.30.8,
purport:
Each
and every one of the sons of King Pracīnabarhiṣat was an
individual soul, but they were united in offering transcendental
service to the Lord. The unity of the individual souls attempting to
satisfy the Supreme Lord or rendering service to the Lord is real
unity. In the material world such unity is not possible. Even though
people may officially unite, they all have different interests. In
the United Nations, for instance, all the nations have their
particular national ambitions, and consequently they cannot be
united. Disunity between individual souls is so strong within this
material world that even in a society of Krishna consciousness,
members sometimes appear disunited due to their having different
opinions and leaning toward material things. Actually, in Krishna
consciousness there cannot be two opinions. There is only one goal:
to serve Krishna to one’s best ability. If there is some
disagreement over service, such disagreement is to be taken as
spiritual. Those who are actually engaged in the service of the
Supreme Personality of Godhead cannot be disunited in any
circumstance.
from
Sri
Caitanya-caritamrita, Antya
11.24:
The
first regulative principle is that one must chant the Hare Krishna
maha-mantra loudly
enough so that he can hear himself, and one must vow to chant a fixed
number of rounds.
from
Back
to Godhead,
Vol. 1, Issue 1, 1966:
“It
does no good to absentmindedly chant the name of Krishna while your
thoughts are elsewhere. Chanting will bring our uncontrolled mind
under control.”
from
Sri
Caitanya-caritamrita, Adi
12.37, purport:
When
Lord Caitanya Mahaprabhu
punished
Kamalakanta Visvasa by no longer allowing him to come into His
presence, although the punishment was actually very hard on him, Sri
Advaita Prabhu, understanding the inner meaning of such punishment,
was happy because He appreciated that the Lord had actually favored
Kamalakanta Visvasa. Therefore He was not at all unhappy. Devotees
should always be happy with all the dealings of their master, the
Supreme Personality of Godhead. A devotee may be put into difficulty
or opulence, but he should accept both as gifts of the Supreme
Personality of Godhead and jubilantly engage in the service of the
Lord in all circumstances.
from
Sri
Caitanya-caritamrita, Adi
12.51, purport:
But
association with pounds-and-shillings men, or visayis,
materialists
who are simply interested in sense gratification, pollutes one’s
mind and hampers such continuous remembrance of Lord Krishna. Sri
Caitanya Mahaprabhu therefore advised, asat-sanga-tyaga
ei vaisnava-acara:
a
Vaishnava
should
behave in such a way as to never associate with nondevotees or
materialists (Cc. Madhava 22.87). One can avoid such association
simply by always remembering Krishna
within
his heart.
from
The
Nectar of Devotion, Chapter
20:
We
may understand that the
various feelings of happiness derived from discharging devotional
service may be termed the “mellows” of devotional service. This
relishing of transcendental mellow in discharging devotional service
cannot be experienced by all classes of men, because this sweet
loving mood is developed only from one’s previous life’s
activities or by the association of unalloyed devotees.
“The
beginning is to hear about Lord Krishna
in the association of devotees who have themselves cleansed their
hearts by association. Hearing about the transcendental
activities
of the Lord will result in one’s feeling transcendental bliss
always.”
from
a Ratha-yatra lecture:
“Ratha-yatra
is a very feeling festival.”
Raghunatha
Dasa Goswami:
from
Sri
Visakhanandabhida-stotra:
Lord
Madhava is famous in the three worlds
because
His name is connected to the name of Radha.
Sri
Radha is famous in the world because Her name
is
connected to the name of Lord Madhava.
Bhakti
Marga Swami:
Q:
What can’t sense gratification make us happy?
A:
Would you expect automobiles to experience pleasure by rubbing their
bumpers together? No. Because we are not our bodies, we should not
expect any pleasure from rubbing our bodies together.
Kirtana
is
one piece that we are presenting to Krishna so we have to work
together.
When
reading Srila Prabhupada’s books we should think, “How can this
can go from the page to the stage?”
Satsvarupa
Dasa Goswami:
from
Writing
in Gratitude:
activities of his guru. Mine saved the
whole world by giving us a movement
with centers in almost all countries. Even in the new countries
of the former Soviet Union, and many cities
in India and America—everywhere.
He was such a spiritual master,
empowered by God. Still he lives in us
by his instruction, in our hearts.
“Now
the black bear of separation from him
crushes my ribs and scratches my limbs.
I run away, maddened
like a jiva who misspends his free will.
I've gotten into trouble without you.
It used to be so simple.
All glories to you and your divine words,
the books you made and your
visits. Please visit us and
call us with your latest orders.”
crushes my ribs and scratches my limbs.
I run away, maddened
like a jiva who misspends his free will.
I've gotten into trouble without you.
It used to be so simple.
All glories to you and your divine words,
the books you made and your
visits. Please visit us and
call us with your latest orders.”
“It
is the perfection of youthful energy to use it in singing and dancing
in congregational sankirtana.
Whoever sees this group will be inclined to join them according to
their capacity and share the bliss.”
“I
truly believe Prabhupada empowered me to write the biography in the
way he wanted. It has affected the lives of many readers, bringing
them to knowledge and appreciation of Prabhupada’s incomparable
contributions.”
Amala
Bhakta Prabhu:
Surrender
means offering body, mind, and words to the Lord.
There
are degrees of blessings as there are degrees of surrendering. The
greatest blessing is to experience the presence of the Lord.
Srila
Prabhupada spoke of “loving devotional service.” There is
“service,” there is “devotional service,” and there is
“loving devotional service.” The desire to please Krishna
differentiates between “service” and “devotional service.”
Shouting
out the word makes it easier to remember than just seeing it on the
page.
When
we are completely focused on our devotional service, the result is
incalculably greater.
When
you cook for Krishna, you are consciously thinking of Krishna as you
add each ingredient of the preparation.
When
we distribute a book, we think that we are incapable and we ask
Krishna to help us, so that person can be truly benefited and attain
love of God.
In
our Seattle temple anyone can come in the temple and get a plate of
prasadam
for
free.
After
many years of taking prasadam,
people
conclude, “I do not know what you guys believe, but you are such
good cooks, there must be something behind it.” I tell them, “There
is plenty behind it. And you are missing out on a lot of goodies.”
And I show them some of the books, and the artwork in the temple,
etc.
When
we are uncertain, the best thing to do is close your eyes and with
folded palms, pray, “My dear Lord Krishna. I do not know what to
do. I do not want do something is displeasing to you. Please guide
me.”
No
need to ask for Krishna anything back.
Sometimes
in difficulty we think, “O Krishna, why aren’t you treating me
nicer. I do so much service.” But what kind of devotional attitude
is that?
Parents
like to hear from their children. And when they hear from us they
become so happy just from that simple act. In the same way, Krishna
likes to hear from us.
How
can you get continuous happiness without connecting with He who is
continuously happy.
Try
to be thankful that you got the mantra. “Krishna, you have given me
this gift. Let me relish it.”
You
can chant with the head or chant with the heart, and it feels
different.
Not
just service, not just devotion, but pure loving devotional service.
Q:
If we find we are doing devotional service without feeling, what do
we do?
A:
We call ourselves a fool and rascal, and all those other words Srila
Prabhupada would always use. Pray to Krishna to protect us from this
maya
with great sincerity.
Q:
What if you are praying to Krishna and at the same time holding on to
maya?
A:
Better go through maya
and
suffer, and then you will realize to stay away from maya.
Try
by discrimination, try by prayer, and if not that does not work, then
go through the maya.
I
would pray to Krishna, “If I had more money, I will do this and
that, but if You do not think I need that, that is fine by me.”
Caturatama
Prabhu:
Srila
Prabhupada was a master of analogies.
Some
people criticize Srila Prabhupada for not sharing the highest
knowledge because he stressed “you are not the body” but that is
higher knowledge, and unless we get then we cannot proceed any
further.
Exchanges
of gifts enhances our appreciation of both the other person and
devotional service to Krishna.
Some
thoughts that go through our mind are useless and should be forgotten
while others are valuable, and sometimes we are confused about which
is which.
Jayananda
Prabhu was enthusiastic to distribute prasadam
to
the people in general and the devotees in particular. Someone he
would wake up you in the middle of the night and stick a cauliflower
pakora
in your mouth, and say, “Look what I found! I thought they were all
gone!”
Friendships
with devotees help us get through crises.
After
one leader described in detail his difficulties in dealing with
different devotees, Srila Prabhupada told him, “As I am tolerating
you, you please tolerate them.”
Srila
Prabhupada’s statement that “in
the material world such unity is not possible” is a slap in the
face of so many welfare workers striving for unity in this world.”
All
our activities are meant for bringing the conditioned souls back to
Godhead.
As
we do devotional service year after year, it becomes more natural
because it is our natural state to be engaged in devotional service.
It
pleases the Personality of Godhead to see the devotees nicely
cooperating in devotional service, and He is inclined to give them
some benediction.
If
the Lord is going to push us to accept a benediction, let that be a
benediction that helps others in devotional service.
The
Lord’s blessings are advancement in devotional service.
Ways
to avoid creating offenses:
Do
not engage in gossip.
Render
service to Vaishnavas.
Being
respectful.
Avoid
speech that offends.
Study
together.
When
I was a new devotee, our temple president would engage us in serving
devotees that we had offended to rectify the situation.
Kalakantha
Prabhu:
When
we come to the point of being disenchanted with the external features
of our life to the point that we want inquire whether there is
something beyond that, that is beginning of our spiritual inquiry.
Are
there moments of existential crisis in which you asked a question?
.[Some
people offered questions]
Are
details important?
How
to solve the root cause of the suffering, such as those caused by
inequity, in the world?
Is
that all there is? I got everything I wanted, but I was not
satisfied? Would I ever be satisfied?
Does
true altruism exist?
To
ask the right questions to the right people is the beginning of
spiritual life.
How
to do our duties without being emotionally affected by the outcome
that is beyond our control. A spiritualist makes the endeavor but
knows the results are beyond his control.
There
is enough money in the world for everyone to have 3 million dollars.
In
Sunday school I would ask, “If God is all-powerful and all-good,
why is there so much suffering?” No one could satisfactorily answer
that question. Bhagavad-gita
does
provide an answer. By acting in ignorance of God we suffer, but when
we act according to His will become free from suffering.
One
should act as if everything depends on us and pray like everything
depends on God.
An
instrument has no value until someone plays it. That is our situation
with ourselves as the instruments of God.
Surrender
can be viewed in a positive way as being protected by a superior
person.
Our
conception of wanting to be independent despite the consequences,
which is like that of two- to four-year-old child, keeps us from
surrendering.
Killing
people for political purposes is clearly in the mode of ignorance.
People
who intimidate others to surrender to God are not representing Him,
for the Lord in Bhagavad-gita
asks for voluntary surrender.
Hell
is all around us. It is living entities transmigrating from one body
to another without being able to do anything about it.
If
one enters marriage with too high expectations, one is bound to be
disappointed.
Men
tend to regenerate by withdrawing while women tend to regenerate by
social interaction, so in marriage one must be aware of this and make
provision for it.
Premarital
counseling to determine if the men and women have compatible values
and expectations is very important to reduce the likelihood of
divorce.
Sometimes
the wife marries someone she feels has great potential with the idea
of modifying him to completely match her needs. This is not a good
idea because the man probably will not change, and she will be
frustrated.
If
they enter the marriage with the idea of wanting to serve each other,
then the marriage has a bright future, but either partner enters the
marriage wanting to enjoy, it is doomed.
Woman
go through different changes throughout their lives, and the men
should be aware of this.
If
both the husband and wife can communicate and accept each other as
they actually are, then marriage can be a fulfilling experience.
from
a breakfast conversation:
Material
life means having great expectations of the material energy and
little expectation of the spiritual, and spiritual life is just the
reverse.
If
it is a genuine spiritual relationship, one should be increasing his
dependence on Krishna.
As
at the end of the Bible, there is the Book of Revelation, similarly
in the Srimad-Bhagavatam,
at
the end is the “Bhumi Gita” telling the symptoms of this age of
Kali.
Forgiveness
is the only way of becoming free from anger.
The
Bible says “a person who claims to be enlightened but who bears
anger for his brother is still in darkness.”
To
get free from anger it helps to understand the other person’s point
of view, but if we inquire in an angry way, the person will become
defensive, so we have to inquire to get information without
expressing our point of view.
We
can inquire within ourselves as to why we became angry.
Avoiding
immediate reaction is helpful in the case of anger.
The
less you know about a dispute before you mediate, the more neutral
you can be.
Overview
- Build Your Peacemaker’s Toolbox
a.
Pen and paper
b.
Open-ended Questions (get the person talking)
c.
Close-ended Questions (to end discussion)
d.
Reflective Listening (showing you have understand)
- Bring the Disputing Parties Together (somehow or other bring decision)
- Understand the Dispute
a.
Allow each side to speak without interruption.
- Start a Discussion (continuing until it becomes repetitive)
- Meet Privately with Each Party
a.
keep meeting of equal length
b.
ask scary open-ended questions if an agreement is not reached today
to motivate
c.
ask questions
- Create a Written Record
comment
by Michel Collins: if you try to act compassionately people will less
likely become angry toward you.
If
anger can be displayed in a self-controlled way, it can be used in
Krishna’s service.
comment
by Ballava-sena Prabhu: When I see that the person who is making me
angry is acting as an instrument of my karma, that solves the whole
issue for me.
Sesa
Prabhu:
It
essential that we have association with devotees that encourage us in
our Krishna consciousness.
In
Ramayana,
Lord
Rama and His three brothers were inseparable and had friendly
relationships devoid competition.
When
Bharata heard that his mother banished Rama to the forest and
arranged he would become king, he was so upset because of his love
for Rama, he immediately disowned his mother.
Bharata
went to the forest to get Rama and hoping to make Him the king. When
he saw Him, he immediately fell at His feet, and said a single word,
“Brother!”
Five
thinks Rama taught:
Protection.
Service
during both adversity and prosperity.
Wealth
[or whatever assets we have] for the happiness for others.
Deep
affection for others.
No
sense of victory over or competition with others.
Increasing
brotherhood is most needed in the world at this time.
In
2011, there was a 20% increase in armed conflicts around the world.
Srila
Prabhupada said regarding the United Nations, “They are simply
increasing the flags.” Instead of becoming more united they are
becoming more divided.
There
is a saying “America is the most segregated on Sunday.” Hardly
will you find a church with people from such a variety of ethnic
backgrounds and financial statuses as at this temple.
Christ
said, “You have not chosen me, I have chosen you.”
Krishna
has directed us here today for a purpose, to experience the
brotherhood of Krishna consciousness.
Srila
Prabhupada said, “Our society is depending on love and respect. We
are bound by love.”
If
we have a humble attitude with everyone, will Krishna not protect us?
We
can respect people for the choices that they make. Then dialog can
take place because there is mutual respect. Still the choices that we
make have different consequences, and difficulty arises when people
are unwilling to accept the consequences for their choices.
We
can pray to Raghunatha Dasa Goswami that we can become completely
absorbed in Krishna consciousness and free from the necessities of
the body.
Vishnupriya,
after Lord Caitanya took sannyasa,
subsisted
on one grain of rice for every round of chanting Hare Krishna (108
mantras).
Srila
Prabhupada said we can present ourselves as “a school of Hinduism.”
Bhakti
Marga Swami preferred that the GBC members not use the word ‘preach’
because it has certain connotations not good for the ‘preaching.’
Srila
Prabhupada points out that teaching spiritual knowledge:
(1)
enables you to become most dear to Krishna
(2)
is the best service to humanity
(3)
is the best act of friendship
(4)
should be done without discrimination
Both
Devamrita Swami and Vaisesika Prabhu agree that we must have
different styles of distributing books to engage the different types
of devotees.
Preaching
is individual as realizations are different, and it is best to preach
according to our realization.
When
you are sharing Krishna consciousness, you want to treat the people
as individuals.
comment
by Kalakantha Prabhu: The beginning of sharing Krishna consciousness
is to understand where people are at.
Good
listening skills:
pay
attention
show
that you are listening
provide
feedback
defer
judgment
respond
appropriately
Preaching
is best when it is not forced.
Purity
is a force that you can use because people will be able perceive you
are acting for their welfare.
comment
by Jai Nitai Gauranga: One time on book distribution I saw people
were afraid of seeing my big books, so I would immediately put them
back in my bag. I would then explain what we were doing and ask for a
donation. If they gave a donation, I would give them a small book as
a gift, which they were happy to accept.
In
the history of preaching in Italy they were encouraging whole
families to get involved in Krishna consciousness. Because the
attitude was inclusive they were very successful.
Once
in Toronto, Prabhupada had a program at an Indian devotee’s house,
but when he got there he saw all his Western disciples, eager to hear
him, were sitting in the devotee’s living room. Srila Prabhupada
inquired, “I came to do an Indian program, but where are the
Indians?”
Good
preaching is creative, an act of love, and best when it is
nonjudgmental.
Prema
Manjari dd:
comment
by Marlon: Scientists say that in women there is more communication
between the two halves of the brain.
comment
by Shyamala: I studied psychology, and there are different types of
intelligence, and men and women excel in different types.
When
they originally invented the IQ test, the girls would score higher,
so they had to revise the tests, so now the boys score a little
higher.
Buddhi
is intelligence given by Krishna, and we really get this intelligence
when we connect with Krishna.
Actually
in the Vedic scriptures it is said both that a women can steal away a
man’s intelligence and that a woman can strengthen a man’s
intelligence.
One
study in the Netherlands showed men become less intelligent after
talking with attractive women.
Even after just a few minutes of talking to an attractive women, men
scored considerably less than usual on tests they were given. Women,
however, did not show diminished abilities after talking to handsome
men.
comment
by Vaishnava Prabhu: There is story from the Mahabharata
regarding
the Pandavas and the Dronacarya and shooting an arrow on the target.
Arjuna was successful because he saw the center of the target alone
and nothing besides that while the vision of the others was not as
focused.
Q:
What about statements in Srila Prabhupada’s books mentioning women
are less intelligent?
A:
One point is that women are said to be less intelligent because of a
tendency to materialist, but in this age both men and women are
materialistic.
A
(Brahma Tirtha Prabhu): I see it as encouragement to chivalrous men
not to exploit women.
comment
by Bhakta John: Studies show that when choosing a mate, women are
more analytical while men are more emotional, just the opposite of
how they usually are.
on
past life regression:
Things
coming from past lives: Great attachment to period in history or a
culture or part of the world, spontaneous affection or aversion to a
particular person, a phobia, or a disease.
Astrologers,
psychics, and hypnotherapists can tell you about your past life.
12%
of mind is conscious.
Only
the part of the mind that deals with past lives is there at birth.
Usually
in a group hypnotherapy session about 75% of the people have a past
life remembrance experience.
Many
devotees mention seeing Srila Prabhupada in a previous life.
Some
people hear or feel things from the past rather than seeing images.
It
is like you are seeing a movie and one of the characters is you, and
it takes some people quite awhile to recognize who is himself or
herself in the previous life.
Some
people worry that you can get stuck there [in the previous life], but
that is not possible.
If
you have a negative experience, you can always open your eyes
When
you just see some images, you can be doubtful, but if you have
emotions then it seems very real.
Rohini
Kumar Prabhu:
Habits
are not simply bad choices, but they are a result of lifetimes of bad
choices.
People
say “God is love.” Suppose if I went up to you and said, “You
are love” what would you think? Of course, you have been called
worse, but still, would you be pleased? Love is just a quality, but
you are more than just a quality. You are a person.
We
say, “My body.” But did I make my body? My mother has more claim
to my body than I do.
Anger
did not control Srila Prabhupada, but Srila Prabhupada could use it
in Krishna’s service.
There
are two words that can get you out of any argument, “You’re
right.”
The
illusory energy is the immigration department for the spiritual
world.
I
am an eternal spiritual soul stuffed in a material body subject to
time.
By
serving others our good qualities will increase and their good
qualities increase, and we become more the spiritual beings we desire
to be.
As
we chant Hare Krishna, the small stuff seems less significant.
Seeing
my college friends and even a few professors get increasing drunk and
stoned as the night wore on, I wondered how these people were any
better off than the common men in the street who spent thousands less
on education but have a similar conception of enjoying life.
One
of the pleasures of spiritual life is the association of devotees,
and one of the austerities of spiritual life is the association of
devotees.
Eating
only Krishna prasadam
will
immunize us against the material energy.
We
are the tata-stha
sakti (marginal
energy). We cannot get too proud. We can go either way [toward the
spiritual or the material] at any moment.
This
process of bhakti-yoga
is
joyfully performed, and so if we are not happy, then we are doing
something wrong with our sadhana,
and
we should introspect and find out what.
It
is valuable to stay in the middle of the devotees because they are on
the way back to Godhead.
comment
by Tulasirani dd: Sometimes it seemed that my sadhana
was
good and my service was good, but I was not feeling it because I had
the wrong attitude.
comment
by Rohini Kumar Prabhu: Well the attitude is actually an aspect of
the sadhana.
We
have to perform the sadhana
with
the right attitude.
We
cannot take our minds too seriously.
Madhukari
Prabhu:
Vaisesika
Prabhu says preaching to uninterested people is like picking unripe
fruit. Unripe fruit has value but you have to let it ripen.
comment
by Caitanya Dasi of Krishna House: I was telling some people at the
Rainbow Gathering about my trip to India, and that Vrindavan is so
nice you can experience the presence of Krishna simply by being
there. We talked about seeing Krishna’s presence in things and just
then we looked in the perfectly clear sky, and saw a perfect rainbow
over the Rainbow Gathering. We were amazed and considered it
Krishna’s revelation.
Researchers
say that usually falling in love lasts somewhere from the end of the
honeymoon until two years afterward.
If
a very sentimental newly married wife tells her husband each day that
she was too busy thinking of her husband to cook dinner or do the
laundry, such a relationship will not last very long because real
love involves service.
At
the end Bhagavad-gita
Chapter
6, yoga is described as better than other paths, but bhakti-yoga
is
described as the best yoga. Narada also describes how bhakti
surpasses
other paths in his Narada-bhakti-sutras.
Bhakti
is easier because you can engage more than just the mind. You can
also engage your senses and your emotions.
As
we develop as souls our ability to love increases beyond the
conditioning of our body.
Shabari
was herding goats, and learned that her parents were going to kill
the goats for a marriage ceremony feast. She did not like that idea
so she left home. While wandering she encountered an ashram. Watching
the activities of the ashram, she became attracted. She decided to
render to service to the ashram, and get them to include her. It
worked and the sage in charge taught her a meditation. At one point,
all the residents of the left, and the sage in charge told her to
remain and continue chanting the name of Rama, and if you do so, some
day Rama Himself will come, and you will meet Him. Many years later,
Rama was traveling and saw how beautiful the ashram was. Rama asked
her, “How are your austerities all these years?” She replied,
“Everything is worth it because I am seeing You.” She collected
fruits for Him. She would taste them, and if they were good enough,
she would offer them to Him. He was pleased with her devotional
attitude.
Tulasirani
dd:
from
sense gratifiers anonymous meeting:
Krishna
steals butter because it is a product of the gopis
love,
and so He is stealing that love.
comment
by Kimani: I find that if I think of the Bhagavad-gita
verses
at the end of Chapter Three that discuss lust, I get the strength to
free myself from lusty desire in my mind and I become peaceful.
from
a discussion following bhajanas:
Jananivasa
Prabhu told me that Srila Bhaktisiddhanta Sarasvati Thakura said that
if chanting Hare Krishna does not bring us joy it is because we are
willfully neglecting to pay attention to the holy names.
When
I was feeling depressed because I was away from Mayapur. Caitanya
Dasi from Krishna House told me I should go out and distribute the
holy names every day, and that I would feel better. I was so
depressed I did not feel like going out, but I did it anyway, and it
actually made me felt alright.
Sruti
Sagar Prabhu:
from
a conversation:
There
is a story about a devotee who was feeding one friend every day,
until he found out his friend was an atheist, and so he did not feed
him. The Lord appeared to the devotee in a dream, and asked why he
stopped feeding the man, for the Lord said that He Himself feeds all
the atheists.
Jai
Nitai Gauranga Prabhu:
Suppose
you are talking to an acquaintance and you find he is a
multi-millionaire, it may change how you talk to him. Suppose you
find out he is very strong, and you need protection. In this way,
people are affected when they encounter the Lord’s opulence.
My
guru, Jayapataka Swami, told me a sannyasi,
a
member of the renounced order of life, has no private life.
Bhakta
Andy:
The
Sri
Caitanya-caritamrita is
meant for the devotees to relish. If we do not relish it, who will?
B.
B. Govinda Swami tells a story of an Indian government clerk who
greatly facilitated the processing of his paper work because he
understood B. B. Govinda Swami was a follower of Srila Prabhupada.
The young man explained that he was depressed and confused about
life’s meaning when someone gave him Srila Prabhupada’s
Bhagavad-gita,
and
from reading it he was grateful to find life’s meaning. He pulled
out his desk drawer and showed Maharaja’s his copy of Prabhupada’s
book. He asked Maharaja if he could someday meet Srila Prabhupada,
and Maharaja explained that he left his body in 1977. The man’s
eyes filled with tears, as if he had heard of the death of a most
dear friend, and it was several minutes before he could regain his
composure. This shows the power of Srila Prabhupada’s books to
connect one intimately with Srila Prabhupada.
The
Goswamis never said “we have seen Krishna.” They were saying,
“Where is Radha? Where is Krishna?” If people say I know Krishna,
I have seen Krishna, we should be suspicious because that is not the
mood of the advanced souls.
comment
by Tulasirani dd: Sometimes we chant nicely for a few days, and we
think we are doing really well. Then the next day we do not do so
well because pride has crept it. We have to remember it is by the
mercy of the Lord we can chant nicely, and we must always pray for
that mercy.
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patrapatra-vicara
nahi, nahi sthanasthana
yei
yańha paya, tańha kare prema-dana
“In
distributing love of Godhead, Caitanya Mahaprabhu and His associates
did not consider who was a fit candidate and who was not, nor where
such distribution should or should not take place. They made no
conditions. Wherever they got the opportunity, the members of the
Pañca-tattva distributed love of Godhead.” (Sri
Caitanya-caritmrita Adi 7.23)