Diary
of a Traveling Sadhaka, Vol. 9, No. 18
By Krishna-kripa das
(September 2013, part two)
By Krishna-kripa das
(September 2013, part two)
North
Florida and Ohio
(Sent from New York City on October 10, 2013)
(Sent from New York City on October 10, 2013)
Where
I Went and What I Did
During
the second half of September, I spent a week and a half at Krishna
House in Gainesville, chanting at the Krishna Lunch, a football game,
the corner of University Avenue and 13th
Street, and the farmers market and giving a few classes in
Gainesville and one in Alachua. The class in Alachua was on
Bhaktivinoda Thakura’s appearance day (click here
to hear it), and some devotees liked a selection of his teachings
which I shared (click here
to see them). Brahmatirtha Prabhu and I spoke a few words [click here
to see mine] at the Alachua Sunday Feast about Sadaputa Prabhu, known
to the academic world as Richard L. Thompson, who wrote several books
on science and spiritual knowledge, and who passed away five years
before. Sthita-dhi Muni Prabhu, his secretary, who went on to get a
Ph.D. in History of Science, kindly helped sponsor the feast in
Sadaputa’s honor. Prema Sindhu Prabhu, who I knew from Tampa and
Jacksonville, moved to Columbus a while back, and he invited me to
come there and do a four-day seminar on “How to Increase our Taste
for Chanting the Holy Name” for the final four days of the month,
which will ultimately be put on ISKCONDesire Tree. That was a challenge for me as I prefer to give
single classes rather than a series, and also I do not feel myself to
be such a great authority. One good feature was I was able to recite
some beautiful verses glorifying the holy name, and at least that was
undoubtedly beneficial for all to hear. Some of these appear at the
end of the “Insights” section of this journal. I felt victorious
in Columbus because I went on harinama
for
two to three hours each day I stayed there, once traveling to Athens
to further spread the mercy of the holy name.
For
insights I have excellent quotes from Srila Prabhupada’s books, a
quote from a poem by Satsvarupa Dasa Goswami, some beautiful and
practical devotional wisdom from Mahatma Prabhu, wonderful insights
from Radha Jivan Prabhu from his life of devotional service, and
notes by the senior and junior devotees giving classes in
Gainesville, Alachua, and Jackonsville.
Chanting
at University of North Florida
Dakota,
who just met the devotees a few days before, spent five days at
Krishna House following the Jacksonville Ratha-yatra. Afterward I
drove him back to Jacksonville and introduced him to the devotees
there. Amrita Keli dd engaged him in distributing flyers for our
Jacksonville programs, and a couple of his friends, both singing
majors, came by and chanted with us on the blanket before the Krishna
Club meeting.
The
three University of North Florida ladies in the foreground had never
chanted the Hare Krishna mantra before. The one playing harmonium had
never played before, but since she was studying singing and piano I
taught her how to play the chords for the Prabhupada melody. Dakota,
the young man, is pumping the harmonium for her and holding two
mantra cards back-to-back so she and the lady on the right, also
a singing major who took turns leading, could read the words. When
Mit came by to play the drum, the kirtana
ascended
to a higher level.
Later
Dakota got up and danced.
It was awesome to have such a wonderful kirtana with so many brand new people!
Thanks
to Sonya, the girl sitting between Mit and the harmonium player in
the first photo in the series above, for kindly taking the photos with me in them in
addition to singing the response.
The
girl who played the harmonium on the green came to our Krishna Club
meeting, and enjoyed meditating on the sound of the kirtana
there.
Tulasirani dd led the kirtana.
Although there were not as many people as on Radhastami, the previous
week, it was still well attended.
Dorian,
Jonah, Dakota, and I were the men who danced.
In
the beginning, Mallory was the only girl dancing.
As
before, Dorian was enthusiastic to do a kirtana
after
the prasadam,
and at least ten people took part, almost all of them dancing, and it
was truly beautiful to see.
We
chanted Friday on the green.
You can see the devotees were
really absorbed in it.
Here Rae Jeana, Krishna Club president, played the drum,
and Dorian led with the karatalas.
A new girl, who was passing by and was on a spiritual quest, was happy to chant and read the Bhagavad-gita
with
us on the blanket.
We
chanted 4½ hours on Friday, and Dorian was with us practically the
whole time.
Chanting
in Gainesville
I
would chant daily for 2½ hours during Krishna Lunch. Days when
Purusartha Prabhu would come out were always especially ecstatic.
Among them Haridasa Thakura’s Disappearance Day was especially
memorable as twelve people were chanting together on the blanket at
one point.
We
chanted at two farmers markets the second half of September, and
Haridasa Thakura’s Disappearance Day again was the bigger day with
at least sixteen people participating in some of it. Dakota
was visiting us during that one, and he enjoyed dancing along with
the kirtana.
One
devotee girl, who was there with her family, enjoyed playing the
shakers to the kirtana
beat,
even while playing with the hula hoop.
One young man played his own percussion instrument along with the kirtana.
The
next week the stage band started early, so we had sing on the corner
opposite the market.
Often
while in Gainesville, I chant on Friday evening with the Alachua
devotees at the corner of University Avenue and 13th
Street.
There are six University of Florida home football games each year, and devotees have been chanting in front of Gate 7 of the stadium for two hours before the games even before I moved to Alachua County nineteen years ago. I remember on one Radhastami, 36 devotees chanted at the football stadium! On September 21 there were fewer, but quite a mix of newer devotees and senior devotees, and children and adults.
Here
a very little girl successfully distributes a devotional pamphlet.
Some
of the fans, often drunk, dance with the devotees.
Here
a devotee encourages the fans to chant the mantra.
Here
two fans take turns holding the Hare Krishna maha-mantra
sign.
Encounters
with Visvambhara Prabhu of the Mayapuris
Visvambhara
Prabhu of the Mayapuris happened to be in the temple room at Krishna
House in Gainesville when I came down for our evening kirtana,
so
I invited him to sing. He was waiting for a ride, but said he would
sing until his ride came, which happened to be after the half-hour
kirtana
was
over. The Gauri Arati kirtana
is
always lively in Gainesville with usually between seven and fifteen
devotees, and it was extra lively with Visvambhara singing.
It just
got better and better, and the Nrsimha prayers at the end were really
dynamic.
The
next morning about 5 a.m. as I was in the line for security at the
airport, I was pleasantly surprised to encounter Visvambhara again.
He was enroute to San Francisco where he was doing two programs each
day, beginning with a kirtana
at
Google
that very day. He explained his awesome schedule of traveling Friday
through Monday to different cities to do kirtana,
attending
classes in religion at University of Florida Tuesday and Thursday and
teaching mrdanga
on Wednesday. He said his university classes are from 3 to 6 p.m.,
ending just before the Gaura Arati, and I encouraged him to chant at
least once a week when he is in Gainesville, and he was agreeable.
Although
he does kirtana
with
many amazing personalities all over the world, he surprised me by
saying his favorite kirtana
was
one he did with me alone at Krishna Lunch at the University of
Florida. He sang, and I played the only beat I know on the drum, and
we sang the same tune for the whole time. He said, “It did not go
anywhere, nor did it have to go anywhere.” He says people ask him to
teach them how to play many tunes on the harmonium and many beats on
the drum, but actually one does not need such variety. The holy name
is sufficient!
I
told him I was invited to give a seminar on a getting a taste for
chanting the holy name, and I asked him what he would say if he were
to give such a seminar. He smiled broadly and thought for awhile and
he told how at one gathering of devotees, he saw many senior devotees
seriously chanting on beads with concentration, and how Radhanath
Swami had a tear in his eye, and just being in that presence
increased his conviction about the holy name. When I spoke in the
evening, I discussed how by association with great devotees we can
gain taste for the holy name, and used this example from Visvambhara.
Chanting
in Columbus
While
we were chanting at Ohio State, a young man asked if we were Hare
Krishnas and what we believed. I said, “Yes. We understand there is
one God. All living creatures are part of Him. Human life is special
because we can develop our relationship with Him by chanting His
names, especially the Hare Krishna mantra.” Then I gave him a
mantra card. He said last Saturday he was in Gainesville and heard
some Hare Krishnas chanting at the football game. I smiled and said,
“I was one of them and that card I just gave you is for our Hare
Krishna center there!” Perhaps by making him meet the devotees in
two cities in the same week, Krishna is trying to give him some
special mercy.
Prema
Sindhu Prabhu, who invited me to Columbus, Prema Vilasa Prabhu, Nitai
Gauranga Prabhu, Jagannath Prabhu, and I went on harinama
before
the Ohio State football game for over two hours. I think the Ohio
football fans are even more wild than the Florida ones. Prema Vilasa
Prabhu, although he likes harinama,
had
never been to a football game harinama,
considering
the event with all the drunken revelers to be scary, but he had a
great time and is thinking of inviting other devotees to the game
harinamas
in
the future. At least three fans took extensive video of us, one who
was an acquaintance of Jagannath Dasa Prabhu, being a regular
attender at the temple programs.
I
do not always go on harinama
on
Sundays. I do in Newcastle but do not in Gainesville, but I think it
is best to go out every day, and so before the Columbus Sunday feast,
we chanted from the temple, through the university, to the front of
Ohio State Student Union, where we sat down on the sidewalk, facing
High Street. Different people were attracted, many taking pictures.
One girl named Kristen, who often attends the temple Sunday program,
took a little video (http://youtu.be/5taAzBBdHoY):
Three
young Afro-American boys on their bicycles looked suspiciously at the
oatmeal cookies we offered them, and one of them cautiously took one
but did not eat it, and they rode off. Later they came back, each grabbing
two or three cookies! I guess the cookies passed their
taste test.
The
last ten minutes we were in front of the Union, a young man sat on
the wall separating the lawn from the sidewalk and listened intently.
When we packed up to go, we gave him a cookie. He told us his name
was Alex, and he was very familiar with Hare Krishna from his
childhood in Sochi, Russia. He recalled the friendliness of the
devotees, the joy of the chanting, and the taste of the prasadam,
and he was happy to encounter them again. We invited him to the
Sunday and Thursday programs at our Columbus center, and I hope he
comes. Jagannath told him of a regular attender from Ukraine, also
named Alex, to encourage him to come.
When
Tulasirani dd heard I was going to Columbus, she encouraged me to do harinama at Ohio University in Athens, an hour and a half away, saying that the
students are nicer there. The devotees have done college programs
there for years, although not at present, and that is how she met the
devotees. I asked Jagannath and Nitai Gauranga Prabhus, the two
devotees living in the Columbus temple, about going to do harinama
in
Athens, and they also thought the students are nicer there, and Nitai
Gauranga Prabhu kindly agreed to drive us. We settled on Monday,
which turned out to be both Ekadasi and my fifty-fourth birthday. I
made coconut burfi
flavored
with fresh mint for distribution to both the devotees and the
students. In Vedic culture, traditionally people give gifts on their
birthdays to purify their births rather than receive gifts, and when
I have an opportunity, I make sweets to give away, as I was able to
do this year.
We
did find the students to be more friendly in Athens, and we ended up
distributing four books by chanting for 2½ hours with books and
sweets on display. About fifty sweets were also distributed. Many
people took pictures of us.
One
girl named Mary was especially happy to see us, and she asked the boy
she was with to take pictures of us, some with her in them. I asked
Nitai Gauranga Prabhu to give her the garland he was wearing as she
seemed the most enthusiastic person we were likely to encounter that
day. She told me that she would keep the garland her whole life.
It
seemed very rare indeed that someone would say that. I told her that
because the garland was spiritual, if she did keep it her whole life,
it would retain a pleasant fragrance. She also asked when we would be
coming back to visit her school, but the devotees had no idea. After
the harinama
as
we were walking back to the car, we met Mary again, and she was still
wearing the garland. She said she had been smelling it from time to
time all afternoon. When we first met Mary, she had passed up the
coconut sweet having just eaten, but now she was willing to take one
and liked it.
Turns out Mary was also interested in yoga, like many
people who are on the way to Krishna.
We
met a middle-aged man toward the end who was very happy to see Hare
Krishna devotees and asked if we were from New Vrindavan. He knew the
names of many devotees who had lived there years before including
Bhaktipada, who was formerly in charge, and the man had visited there
himself and been impressed with Prabhupada’s Palace.
All
in all, we felt good that we went to Athens, despite traveling 3
hours to stay for 2½, and I think that now the Columbus devotees
will go there more often.
I
enjoyed my visit to Columbus, having daily harinama partners
to chant with and the association of people interested in increasing
their taste for chanting the holy name. Thanks to Prema Sindhu
Prabhu, Prema Vilasa Prabhu, Naveen Krishna Prabhu, Jagannatha
Prabhu, and Nitai Gauranga Prabhu, and all the others who facilitated
me there.
To see the 94 pictures I took, but did not include in this blog, click on this link:
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The first 32 pictures are included in this blog and may look familiar but not those that follow.
Insights
Srila
Prabhupada:
from
Srimad-Bhagavatam
6.16.18–19,
purport:
“Whenever
we see Krishna, He is always full of ananda
[spiritual
bliss] in all circumstances. No one can make Him morose. Atmaramaya:
He does not need to search for external enjoyment, because He is
self-sufficient. Santaya:
He has no anxiety. One who has to seek pleasure from other sources is
always full of anxiety. Karmis,
jnanis
and yogis are full of anxiety because they want something, but a
devotee does not want anything; he is simply satisfied in the service
of the Lord, who is fully blissful.”
from
Srimad-Bhagavatam
6.16.41,
purport:
“If
one advocates the Hindu religion, the Muslim religion, the Christian
religion, this religion or that religion, there will be conflicts.
History shows that the followers of religious systems without a clear
conception of God have fought with one another. There are many
instances of this in human history, but systems of religion that do
not concentrate upon service to the Supreme are temporary and cannot
last for long because they are full of envy. There are many
activities directed against such religious systems, and therefore one
must give up the idea of ‘my belief’ and ‘your belief.’
Everyone should believe in God and surrender unto Him. That is
bhagavata-dharma.”
from
Srimad-Bhagavatam
6.16.43,
purport:
“The
members of human society who strictly follow the principles of
bhagavata-dharma
and live according to the instructions of the Supreme Personality of
Godhead are called Aryans or arya.
A civilization of Aryans who strictly follow the instructions of the
Lord and never deviate from those instructions is perfect. Such
civilized men do not discriminate between trees, animals, human
beings and other living entities. Panditah
sama-darsinah: [Bg.
5.18] because they are completely educated in Krishna consciousness,
they see all living beings equally. Aryans do not kill even a small
plant unnecessarily, not to speak of cutting trees for sense
gratification. At the present moment, throughout the world, killing
is prominent. Men are killing trees, they are killing animals, and
they are killing other human beings also, all for sense
gratification. This is not an Aryan civilization.”
from
Srimad-Bhagavatam
6.16.44,
purport:
“Sri
Caitanya Mahaprabhu introduced this chanting of the holy name five
hundred years ago, and now through the Krishna consciousness
movement, the Hare Krishna movement, we are actually seeing that men
who are considered to belong to the lowest class are being delivered
from all sinful activities simply by hearing the holy name of the
Lord.”
“From
our present position, the Supreme Personality of Godhead can be
personally seen as the Deity in the temple. The Deity of the Lord is
not different from the Supreme Lord. Because we cannot see the
Supreme Lord with our present blunt eyes, the Lord has kindly
consented to come before us in a form we can see. Therefore the Deity
in the temple should not be considered material. By offering food to
the Deity and by decorating and serving the Deity, one gets the same
result that one derives from serving the Lord personally in
Vaikuntha.”
from
Sri Caitanya-caritamrta,
Madhya 8.300, purport:
“Being
the eternal servant of Lord Ramacandra, Hanumanji has been
respectfully worshiped for many hundreds and thousands of years. Here
even Lord Sri Caitanya Mahaprabhu set the example in showing how one
should offer respects to Hanumanji.”
from
Sri Isopanisad, Verse 1, purport:
“The
human race should take the Vedic wisdom of
Sri Isopanisad
and not quarrel over material possessions. One must be satisfied with
whatever privileges are given to him by the mercy of the Lord. There
can be no peace if the communists or capitalists or any other party
claims proprietorship over the resources of nature, which are
entirely the property of the Lord. The capitalists cannot curb the
communists simply by political maneuvering, nor can the communists
defeat the capitalists simply by fighting for stolen bread. If they
do not recognize the proprietorship of the Supreme Personality of
Godhead, all the property they claim to be their own is stolen.
Consequently they will be liable to punishment by the laws of nature.
Nuclear bombs are in the hands of both communists and capitalists,
and if both do not recognize the proprietorship of the Supreme Lord,
it is certain that these bombs will ultimately ruin both parties.
Thus in order to save themselves and bring peace to the world, both
parties must follow the instructions of Sri
Isopanisad.”
from
Sri Isopanisad, Verse 2, purport:
“Factually,
no one has to do anything more than render devotional service to the
Lord. However, in the lower stages of life one cannot immediately
adopt the activities of devotional service, nor can one completely
stop fruitive work. A conditioned soul is accustomed to working for
sense gratification — for his own selfish interest, immediate or
extended. An ordinary man works for his own sense enjoyment, and when
this principle of sense enjoyment is extended to include his society,
nation or humanity in general, it assumes various attractive names
such as altruism, socialism, communism, nationalism and
humanitarianism. These
"isms" are certainly very attractive forms of
karma-bandhana
(karmic bondage), but the Vedic instruction of Sri
Isopanisad
is that if one actually wants to live for any of the above ‘isms,’
he should make them God-centered. There is no harm in becoming a
family man, or an altruist, a socialist, a communist, a nationalist
or a humanitarian, provided that one executes his activities in
relation with isavasya,
the
God-centered conception.
from
Sri Isopanisad, Verse 3, purport:
We
are given this human form of life not to work hard like asses, swine
and dogs but to attain the highest perfection of life. If we do not
care for self-realization, the laws of nature force us to work very
hard, even though we may not want to do so. Human beings in this age
have been forced to work hard like the asses and bullocks that pull
carts.
Hridayananda
Goswami:
from a letter to Bhaktin Amy:
“Prabhupada
once wrote to me that we do not engage in mental speculation but we
can engage in philosophical speculation. He gave this example. In the
Gita,
Krishna
says, ‘I am the taste in water.’ To speculate WHETHER this
statement is true or not is mental speculation. If I accept Krishna’s
words, and try to grasp HOW it is true, that is philosophical
speculation, and I won't get busted!”
“Today’s
drawing shows four
bhaktas dancing and
chanting with upraised arms.
Two are facing forward,
and two move to the side.
Mundane dancers can't
feel the happiness
these men experience. They
are beyond the modes
of nature. It's a liberated
dance done in love of Krishna.”
bhaktas dancing and
chanting with upraised arms.
Two are facing forward,
and two move to the side.
Mundane dancers can't
feel the happiness
these men experience. They
are beyond the modes
of nature. It's a liberated
dance done in love of Krishna.”
Kalakantha
Prabhu:
There
are many “gurus” who will take your material opulence, but not so
many that will take your sinful reactions.
Two
of the mahajanas,
the
great Vedic authorities on religious principles, namely Prahlada
Maharaja and Bali Maharaja, were descendents of the great atheist,
Hiranyakasipu, which shows that a person from any background can
become a great devotee.
Pururava
was wise in that he took responsibility for his own uncontrolled
senses and did not blame his wife, Urvasi.
comment:
by Tulasirani dd: It is good for men to make a plan how they will
maintain their family if they choose to get married in the future,
even if they are satisfied as brahmacaris
now.
comment
by Radhika Nagara Prabhu:
Kalakantha
Prabhu has created a wonderful program with his forty year’s
experience whereby people can take up Krishna consciousness at their
own rate. I hope you can take full advantage of it and become
inspired to spread Krishna House to all the cities of your country.
Mahatma
Prabhu:
Saintly
qualities are always interesting to discuss because they are so
rarely seen.
Narada
wanted Daksa to ask him to be forgiven for the offensive words Daksa
had spoken to Narada so Daksa would be open to hear about bhakti.
Bhaktivinoda
Thakura said that one who has love for God loves others. A humble
person is compassionate because he does not want to cause others harm
on his own account. He develops forgiveness.
Cleanliness
helps develop God consciousness.
It
foolish not to practice humility thinking because you do not feel
humble it would be artificial and that you will become humble by your
spiritual practice. It is like thinking that you do not want to take
a shower artificially until by your spiritual practice you develop
the quality of cleanliness.
We
blame others for causing us to feel in a certain way, when in fact if
we did not have certain needs, the others would not caused us to feel
that way.
If
you have many needs, you will definitely suffer.
In
spiritual life, we have to monitor our qualities and see if we are
developing the divine qualities of saint.
In
an Amish community a man killed two daughters not his own and then
killed himself. The parents of the girls who were killed came to the
man’s wife saying they forgave her husband, and that if she was
inconvenienced by not having her husband, she could live with them.
You
have to realize that you are holding on to resentment, resentment is
not holding on to you.
Q:
How can we forgive?
A:
I have a seventeen-hour seminar on forgiveness but here are some
ideas:
If
you think that what the person did to you is unforgivable, then you
will never be able to forgive them.
If
you do not forgive the person, it will harm you physically, mentally,
and emotionally.
If
you did the same thing the person did to you, you would want to be
forgiven.
One
writer said if you understand the secret history of the suffering of
any individual person, you would not be bear any enmity to anyone.
Bhaktisiddhanta
Sarasvati Thakura says that when we receive the fruits of our karma,
we then blame our karma.
Patanjali
advises to counteract envy by acting in the opposite way, as the
well-wisher of the person you envy.
Q:
Why do we have to practice these saintly qualities?
A:
For millions of lives we have practiced just acting just the
opposite. We can engage our nature in Krishna’s service but not our
demonic qualities.
You
may take the medicine for six months and see no result and stop. When
you see the doctor in a year, he asks how you are. You say you are
still sick and you stopped taking the medicine after six months because you saw no result, and
he says that if you had taken it for a year you would be cured.
You
are attracted to hearing about Krishna because you a spirit soul. You
are attracted to chanting Hare Krishna because you are a spirit soul.
You find that material happiness does not completely satisfy you
because you a spirit soul.
We
cannot be Krishna conscious without the association of devotees,
even those we do not like. It is helpful to see how each devotee is
engaged in devotional service.
Do
not criticize people. Everyone has many faults, but it does not help
you to criticize them.
One
writer says that when you criticize someone it says more about your
need to criticize than it does about the qualities of the person.
If
I see something bad in someone, that discourages me, but if I see
good qualities, it inspires me. So even just considering your own
state of consciousness it is better to praise than criticize.
In
my forgiveness workshop we have people praise those people they have
difficulty forgiving. Sometimes it is difficult, but it does improve
our opinion of the person and improve our relationship with the
person also.
Where
there is love, there is surrender. If we love Krishna, we will
automatically surrender to Him.
If
you were God, would you change your life? Is everything about your
life perfect the way it is? You would change a few things, wouldn’t
you? That is the difference between us and God. God does what He
likes.
Everything
is connected to Krishna. Only we are not because of our
consciousness.
Q:
What about the material activities we have to do in addition to our
devotional activities?
A:
You should link all your activities to Krishna, then you will have no
material activities.
Q:
Some devotees say I should just chant and do my service and my mind
will clear up. Others say I have to work on it.
A:
I learned from going to japa
conferences, from the Buddhists, and other sources, when you are in
your mind, you are not in your heart, and when you are in the heart,
you are not in your mind. So try to be in your heart when you chant
japa.
Try
to feel Krishna. Srila Prabhupada said you can feel Krishna in the
holy name.
You
can talk to your conditioned side.
It
is always better to focus on what you want than to focus on what you
don’t want.
One
teacher says you should always aspire for something beyond what you
think you can achieve. Then you can come to a higher level.
Instead
we think, “I am not Radhanath Swami. I am just a fallen Alachua
devotee. What can I achieve?” Thus we limit ourselves.
I
have some bad news. What ever challenges you have in this life, if
you do not resolve them, you will still them in your next life.
If
you realize your mind was programmed by you in the last life, you can
start reprogramming your mind now.
Once
a devotee, maybe twenty-four years old, who had a wife with a
one-year-old son wanted to take sannyasa.
Srila
Prabhupada asked the man to consider what effect that would have on
his wife and son, and said that a devotee does not like to do
anything that harms anyone.
Bhakti
Vidya Purna Swami teaches his brahmacaris
to
become grhasthas.
That
accomplishes two purposes: the men who want to get married learn the
nature of women and how to deal with them and thus become better
husbands, and the men who think that is all too much can stay
brahmacaris.
We
do not have to act on the crazy ideas that appear in our mind. In the
mode of goodness, those negative thoughts have no energy.
The
macho husbands who tell their wives who are emotional, “Just get a
hold of yourself,” are actually not self-controlled. Rather the
husbands who patiently listen to their wives are actually
self-controlled.
According
Maha-samhita,
a
brahmana
never
berates himself.
A
person who is self-pitying is like a person who falls in the mud, and
just lies there, and says, “I fell in the mud, I am so unfortunate;
it is so muddy; the mud even smells,” instead of getting out of the
mud, and taking a shower, and going on with life.
A
devotee told Bhakti Vidya Purna Swami, “I cannot forgive this
devotee. What should I do?” His reply was “Forgive him because it
is pleasing to Krishna.”
One
person who trains counselors said, “The most effective counseling
is a supportive spiritual community.”
Vallabha
Sena Prabhu:
Narada
realized that he could not instruct King Pracinbarhi directly so he
told him a story about a king just like himself so he could realize
his mistaken program of life. This is one strategy we can also use in
our outreach.
Narada
taught the king it is not sufficient just to aspire to heavenly
enjoyment in the next life, rather one should endeavor for an eternal
situation in the spiritual world.
Before
I met the devotees, I hitchhiked all over America looking for the
ideal situation for ultimate happiness, but no place was perfect.
from
different Prabhupada disciples on a Following
Prabhupada
video:
Five
boys from brahmana
families
in Vrindavan took initiation from Srila Prabhupada at the time of
Krishna-Balarama installation ceremony. That was a great victory of
Vaishnavism over Brahmanism.
I
visited my parents before going to Vrindavan to see Srila Prabhupada.
My mother asked if there was anything she could give me for Srila
Prabhupada. I asked her if there was anything she would like to give
him. She suggested she could make some guava jam as we had many fruit
trees on our property. I agreed and so she did. I gave the jam to
Prabhupada’s servant. For two days he was looking for me as
Prabhupada wanted the name and address of my mother she he could
write her a thank you letter. In the letter, he said that it was the
best jam he received and it was like his mother used to make for him.
He said not worry for your daughter and that he was making sure she
was nicely engaged in the Lord’s service. I was amazed that despite
all the things happenings regarding the Krishna Balarama temple
installation ceremony, Prabhupada had time to reciprocate with my
mother.
One
devotee was told to start a gosala
[a
place where cows are kept],
and
he did not have any money so he sold his Seiko watch and bought two
cows, and that was the beginning.
Once
after playing a Hare Krishna tune on the harmonium, Prabhupada said,
“This is the way to please Krishna, to chant Hare Krishna in
different melodies.”
Prabhupada
honored prasadam
alone
99% of the time, and you could see he was really doing it as an act
of worship, meditating on the prasadam
being
nondifferent from Krishna.
Prabhupada
would tell us many times that we could learn from nature. He would
know the Latin names of the trees in the botanical gardens and know
their medicinal uses.
Once
I decided to collect the dust from Srila Prabhupada’s feet, but I
noticed that when Srila Prabhupada walked his feet did not make an
impression in the grass like his disciples did.
My
son spent more time with Srila Prabhupada than I did. He would sneak
in Prabhupada’s window, and take prasadam
with
him, or sleep under his bed.
Srila
Prabhupada said, “Nothing happens accidentally. . . . You do not
see the cause. . . . Why do they go to the college? Why not
accidentally get a Ph.D.?”
Srila
Prabhupada liked us to keep the doors and windows closed during the
initiation ceremony. He did not think that the smoke was very
harmful.
Srila
Prabhupada preached to one newspaper reporter for forty-minutes how
you are not the body, but a servant of Krishna, despite the general
inquiries of the reporter. The reporter wrote an article half a page
long on page two of the Melbourne
newspaper
The
Age.
Prabhupada liked it so much he asked for ten or twelve copies to show
to his life members in India.
Radha
Jivan Prabhu:
Householder
life is not just for fun but is a life of responsibility. That is why
it is given when one is mature. It is meant for sacrifice.
Household
life is not easy. There is a joke. A mouse was found dancing at a
tiger’s wedding. One of the tigers inquired from the mouse why he
was present there. The mouse replied that the tiger was his brother,
and he wanted to attend his brother’s wedding. The tiger replied,
“No, that cannot be. You are a mouse, and he is a tiger.” The
mouse replied, “No, it is a fact. Before I was married, I was a
tiger.”
A
devotee begins to understand that because the Lord has parental
affection for him, He will make of kinds of arrangements to take care
of him.
Whatever
strength we have is given 100% by one person, and that person is the
Supreme Personality of Godhead, Krishna. As we advance we get
glimpses of this. When we chant Hare Krishna in this consciousness it
is very pure.
About
70 or 80 years ago, there was a young sadhu who was chanting at
Kusuma sarovara. One beautiful young lady bathed naked in the river
before him, and he was attracted to stare at her breasts. He soon got
an eye disease. He went to several doctors but none could cure him.
He became introspective and decided that because he was dressed as a
sadhu but he acting out of lust that Krishna was punishing me. He
asked the most prominent sadhu in Vrndavana at that time, Priya
saranji Maharaja, for some atonement. He gave him a couplet that
said, “Cut my neck, or put a sword in my heart, O Lord, I will only
say, ‘Thank you, very much.’” When the young sadhu embraced
that understanding, his eye began to heal.
Bhaktisiddhanta
Saravati Thakura says, “Patience, humility, and respect for others,
are our real friends for Hari-bhajana [the
glorification of the Lord].”
The
most challenging in household life is attachment.
Give your activities to the world, and give your heart to the Lord.
The
situation created by the leaders at Krishna House where you do not
have to worry about your material needs is meant so you can focus
completely on your spiritual life and get some realization that can
benefit you the rest of your life.
The
greatest loss in life is the loss of faith.
One
sadhu was sitting with some devotees. One bold girl asked the sadhu
whether his beard was better or the beard of her goat was better. The
sadhu told her he would answer her question later. At the time of his
death he sent for the girl who since become a woman. He said,
“Remember the question you asked me years ago? The answer is my
beard is better than your goat’s beard.” The woman asked, “Why
did you wait so long to answer?” The sadhu replied, “I could have
fallen away from my spiritual practice at any time. In that case, the
beard of your goat would have been better.”
Even
to make a little endeavor for spiritual life is a rare benediction.
Usually
when we come to Krishna consciousness, we feel some relief from
material existence, but then we end up performing our devotional
activities in a ritualistic way.
Although
Vasudeva Maharaja, Krishna’s father, was a powerful warrior, he
acted like a brahmana
when
pacifying his cruel brother-in-law, Kamsa.
Krishna
is very shy to show us what He is doing for us, but behind the scenes
He is always making arrangements for His devotee.
The
materialists may not be able to appreciate the how our spiritual
practice is benefiting us, but we should appreciate it and maintain
ourselves on the spiritual plane.
Pure
Krishna consciousness will attract people whether we like it or not.
Srila Prabhupada was a single person, but because of his pure
consciousness, so many people were attracted by his chanting.
There
is a pastime of Tukarama. He was returning from bathing in the river
when he passed beneath the window of a Muslim man who spit water from
his mouth on Tukarama’s head. Without frowning or looking up,
Tukarama returned to the river to bathe again in order to be clean to
worship his deity. The same thing happened 100 times. On the final
time, the Muslim man came down from his apartment and offered
prostrated obeisances before Tukarama, and admitted to trying to test
him, and he asked Tukarama how he was able not to be become angry.
Tukarama said, “Today I took 100 baths before worshiping my deity,
by your mercy alone. Otherwise, I would have not.”
If
you do not follow strictly, you will not experience any result, and
then you may give up your practice, and thus lose your opportunity.
Due
to our past activities, we are not so inclined to Krishna, but if we
continue our practice, our attachment to Krishna will definitely
manifest.
Rohini
Kumara Prabhu:
I
know a lady who chanted 108 rounds a day at Radha-kunda for many
years, but she does not do that anymore.
Bhima’s
plate is 18 feet across. Madhavacarya is said to have found Bhima’s
club.
God
can come up and slap your face, and if you are an atheist, you will
still say there is no God.
Amrita
Keli dd:
The
great thing about the practice of Krishna consciousness is that you
can experience it now.
Namamrita
Prabhu:
You
can turn your back on the sun, but that does not mean it is not there.
In the same way, we can turn our back on God, but He remains.
Research
show that persons who are addicted to pornography have their brains
overstimulated and have to completely restrain from it to normalize
their brain function.
Lust
must be curbed as soon as possible before it blocks our
self-realization.
It
is said that 70 drops of blood are required to produce a drop of
semen.
Celibates generally are more joyful and have greater strength, vitality, and intellect than those who have sex regularly.
Celibates generally are more joyful and have greater strength, vitality, and intellect than those who have sex regularly.
The
right way to have sex is within a relationship centered on dharma.
Q
(by Sankalpa dd): Sometimes marriages break up over differences in
how strictly one limits sex in marriage.
A (by Kalakantha Prabhu): The most important thing is to understand that is not something to break up over. The couple has to come to a mutual agreement and gradually increase one’s strictness. It is a matter for the husband and wife to figure out. The whole point is to minimize and gradually reduce sex life.
A (by Kalakantha Prabhu): The most important thing is to understand that is not something to break up over. The couple has to come to a mutual agreement and gradually increase one’s strictness. It is a matter for the husband and wife to figure out. The whole point is to minimize and gradually reduce sex life.
Comment
by Tulasirani dd: I went to the gynecologist for a checkup for the
first time in years, and had to fill out an extensive form, asking
questions like how many abortions have you had, how many sexually
transmitted diseases have you had, etc. Some questions did not even
had a choice for celibate people to answer. I felt so thankful to
Srila Prabhupada that I was saved from so many calamities. I shared
some of my thoughts with my gynocologist, and she ended up taking one
of Srila Prabhupada’s books.
Omkara
Prabhu:
Vaisesika
Prabhu marvels that The
Nectar of Instruction brings
us from controlling the tongue to living on the shores of Radha
Kunda. He also describes that the tongue is like a rudder that
directs where we go.
Hanan:
Once
I worked with an insurance company in Israel, and some thieves stole
a lot of money from the company, but they were discovered and chose
to make a deal with the company to return the money and not involve
the police. Thus as an employee I found myself carrying thousands of
dollars from the bank to the office. I found when I was carrying the
suitcase full of money, I was thinking of myself as a special person.
No one else was carrying so much money. I dreamed of taking the money
and going back to India with it. But when I delivered the money, I
was again an ordinary person. That is our situation in this world.
Whatever we have, we have only temporarily, and our thrill of
possessing it is a temporary pleasure.
A
scientific study was done where they asked people their favorite kind
of ice cream and paid them to come and eat their favorite ice cream.
People very happily came for a few days, but after awhile they
stopped coming. They had had enough. Thus they demonstrated the truth
that sense enjoyment does not satisfy the soul.
Dhrtarastra
was blinded by envy of the Pandavas, so he discriminated between the
Pandavas and his own sons. Duryodhana was blinded with greed to enjoy
the Pandavas property.
I
knew intellectually that Krishna would take care of me, but still I
was always afraid. Then Krishna made an arrangement to convince me
that He really would take care of me. I was in Mayapur, and a
Bengali friend and I went to visit Jagannatha Dasa Babaji Maharaja’s
bhajana
kutira. We
heard there was a sadhu over a hundred years old there, and we wanted
to see him. We found him resting on his bed, and very peaceful. We
asked him for his blessings, and he said, “May you be able to chant
like Jagannatha Dasa Babaji Maharaja.” A pujari
came
with a plate of prasadam
for
him.
I saw after a life of devotional service, the old sadhu was peaceful
and happy, and that his needs were being taken care of. From this
experience, I gained faith that if I dedicated my life to serve
Krishna that in the end Krishna would take care of me, and so I
increased my service.
On
the singles records they had in the past, they would put a popular
song on one side which you would buy the record for, but then there
would be a not so popular tune on the back that you would not be
eager to hear. The material world is like that.
Giving
fully to Krishna is more important than what we actually give him.
Bhaktin
Amy:
from
a comment during a class I took no other notes on:
“When
I’m having difficulty accepting or understanding a point,
Hridayananda Goswami said that rather then wondering if the point is
true, accept it as truth and commit to understanding how it is true.”
Krishna-kripa
das:
selections
on the holy name quoted during seminar on increasing taste for
chanting:
“One
has to learn about the beauty and transcendental position of the holy
name of the Lord by hearing the revealed scriptures from the mouths
of devotees. Nowhere else can we hear of the sweetness of the Lord’s
holy name.” (Sri
Caitanya-caritamrita,
Antya 1.101)
“The
answer to your second question is that when one becomes accustomed to
inoffensive chanting, then his fruit is that he is promoted to the
stage of pure Love of Godhead, or prema.
This prema
is the perfectional stage of consciousness and the most blissful by
very far.” (Srila Prabhupada in a letter to Sivananda, Los Angeles,
December 4, 1968)
[Sri
Caitanya Mahaprabhu, reciting Rupa Goswami’s verse:] “I do not
know how much nectar the two syllables ‘Krish-na’ have produced.
When the holy name of Krishna is chanted, it appears to dance within
the mouth. We then desire many, many mouths. When that name enters
the holes of the ears, we desire many millions of ears. And when the
holy name dances in the courtyard of the heart, it conquers the
activities of the mind, and therefore all the senses become inert.”
(Sri
Caitanya-caritamrita,
Antya 1.99)
“When
Sri Caitanya Mahaprabhu chanted this verse, Haridasa Thakura, upon
hearing the vibration, became jubilant and began to dance while
praising its meaning.” (Sri
Caitanya-caritamrita,
Antya 1.100)
“The
mystics derive unlimited transcendental pleasures from the Absolute
Truth, and therefore the Supreme Absolute Truth, the Personality of
Godhead, is also known as Rāma.” (Padma
Purana,
quoted in Bhagavad-gita
As It Is, verse
5.22, purport)
“The
name of Krishna is purely spiritual. There is no knowledge as great
as that of the name, and no practice of austerity or meditation, no
result of spiritual activity, no form of renunciation, no act of
sense control, no pious act, and no goal that can match it. The name
is the supreme liberation, the supreme destination, and the supreme
peace. The name is eternal life itself. The name is the supreme
devotion and the supreme intelligence. The name is the supreme love
and the supreme remembrance. The name is the soul’s reason for
existence. The name is the lord of the soul, the most worshipful
object, and the supreme guru.
“These high praises are verified by the realizations awakening devotees gain as they practice chanting, and so they come to have deep conviction in the holy name.” (Agni Purana)
“These high praises are verified by the realizations awakening devotees gain as they practice chanting, and so they come to have deep conviction in the holy name.” (Agni Purana)
“Those
who are actually advanced in knowledge are able to appreciate the
essential value of this age of Kali.
Such enlightened persons worship Kali-yuga because in this fallen age
all perfection of life can easily be achieved by the performance of
sankirtana. [the congregational chanting of the holy name.”
(Srimad-Bhagavatam
11.5.36)
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jivana
anitya janaha sar,
tahe
nana-vidha vipada-bhar,
namasraya
kori’ jatane tumi,
thakaha
apana kaje
“This
temporary life is full of various miseries. Take shelter of the holy name
as your only business.” (Bhaktivinoda Thakura, “Udilo Aruna,”
verse 6)